Traditionally January is a time to think about goals. We were with the grandchildren in Ottawa last week and helped them develop categories for their goals. We used the categories school, friends, finances, family, etc. As adults, a key category could be your relationship. Relationship Goals: Vision If improving your relationship is one of your […]
Holiday Relationship Tip 9
The 5 Love Languages Gary Chapman wrote this book over 20 years ago but the concepts still make a lot of sense. He likened the way we receive and give love to languages. For example, if I was speaking English but my primary language was French, Italian, German, or Spanish it would make it harder […]
Holiday Relationship Tip 8
Anything Negative by Appointment Only Think about the negative from your old brain point of view. If I don’t know when the attack is coming or where the arrow is coming from, for sure I will have my armour on. It is hard to be intimate when you are both clanking around the same house […]