Last week I talked about quantum theory and the shift for me in how I coach Imago Relationship Therapy and stated: “because of advances in the neurosciences, our neural pathways are more malleable that we previously thought. We can create new neural pathways.” The Brain That Changes Itself In his ground breaking book, The Brain […]

You might ask: What does quantum theory or quantum physics have to do with couples therapy? Good question! In their book Doing Imago Relationship Therapy in the Space-Between, Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt answer:  “We have attempted to base Imago Relationship Therapy, as a theory and a therapy of couplehood, on the […]

I am a coach and as such, have always insisted my players focus on the basics. In football, if my linemen could block and tackle well, we would win games. In hockey, skating, passing, checking and shooting were the four basic skills that allowed us to succeed. I believe the same is true of relationships. […]