A friend recently sent me a couple of quotes which stated this exploration of forgiveness. The two quotes were: “When you forgive you heal. When you let go you grow,” and “Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future.” I am not an expert on forgiveness by any means, but I […]
Safety = Pleasure
Safety = Pleasure seems like a fairly obvious equation but there is a part of our culture that distrusts if things are too good. We have sayings like, it is too good to be true, or wait for the next shoe to drop, or knock on wood. NO, the more you pleasure your partner, the […]
Zero Negativity: The Fastest Way Forward (con’t)
While zero negativity in the Space Between is the fastest way forward, it seems to be the most difficult piece of the puzzle for couples to master. Why? I think because to a large extent, the negativity is unconscious. If a couple has been together for 5 or 10 years, they probably have built up […]
