The Safe Conversation Process is the key skill that couples must learn if they are going to be able to discuss anything in a meaningful way. Typically what people say when they come into the office goes something like this: “We aren’t communicating well” or “It is our communication”. It doesn’t matter much what the […]
The Relationship Coach
In the next few weeks I am going to be examining my new book The Relationship Coach Your playbook for unlocking the combination to a successful relationship. (Hopefully, it will be available next month!) I introduce the book with: “My real goal in writing this book is for you, the reader, especially if you are […]
Safe Conversation: It’s Not WHAT You Say But HOW You Say It
I imagine we have all probably heard the saying “It’s not what you say but how you say it.” Helen, who is writing this chapter, takes this idea to a whole new level. In her last chapter, Being Present for Each Other Heals the Past, she challenged us to answer the call to become each […]