You might ask: What does quantum theory or quantum physics have to do with couples therapy? Good question! In their book Doing Imago Relationship Therapy in the Space-Between, Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt answer:  “We have attempted to base Imago Relationship Therapy, as a theory and a therapy of couplehood, on the […]

I am a coach and as such, have always insisted my players focus on the basics. In football, if my linemen could block and tackle well, we would win games. In hockey, skating, passing, checking and shooting were the four basic skills that allowed us to succeed. I believe the same is true of relationships. […]

Half of what I do in the office is to help people become more aware, more conscious. One of the areas to examine are behaviours that, in essence, are counterproductive. Couples generally recognize that they have repeated certain behaviours that are not getting them where they want to go. Freud called it the repetition compulsion. […]