I started out exploring the Enneagram because in any relationship the more we know about ourselves and our partner, the more helpful it is. From The Enneagram Made Easy “The Enneagram is a study of the nine basic types of people. It explains why we behave the way we do, and it points to specific […]

Enneagram Eight is motivated by the need to be self-reliant and strong and to avoid feeling weak or dependent. They uphold just causes and truly do fight for what they believe is right. A blind spot for the eight can be in assuming their truth equals the truth.  Other descriptions of the eight are The […]

Enneagram Seven is motivated by the need to be happy and plan enjoyable activities. They also feel the need to contribute to the world, and avoid suffering and pain. In a relationship, sevens at their best are light-hearted, generous, outgoing, caring, and fun. They introduce their friends and loved ones to new activities and adventures. […]

Enneagram Six is motivated by the need for security. I have been saying it is helpful to know your type. This is because it can help you move in the direction of growth. I am a six. Phobic sixes tend to be outwardly fearful and seek approval. Counter phobic sixes confront their fear. Both of […]

Enneagram Fives are the Observer, the Thinker. They are motivated by the need to know and understand everything, to be self-sufficient, and to avoid looking foolish. Enneagram fives, six, and sevens tend to live in their heads, whereas, in contrast, eights, nines, and ones primarily operate out of their body, while twos, threes, and fours […]

Enneagram Fours are motivated by the need to experience their feelings and to be understood; to search for the meaning in life, and to avoid being ordinary. They need to feel special. To prove they are special they tend to come across as dramatic; it is all about me. Fours can get stuck in melancholy […]