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Enneagram 4: Individualist or Romantic

As we work our way through the Enneagram, we land at Number 4 today. Enneagram 4 is the most misunderstood enneagram type. They have a need to be understood, known, and loved while being considered special and different. As well, they want to be noticed and to fit in while being considered unique and extraordinary. […]

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Relationship Challenge: It’s Not Fair

 I encountered a specific relationship challenge recently, the concept of “it’s not fair!” Relationship Challenge  “What you are doing is not working.” I used that phrase the other day in the office and was challenged by my client. His understanding was the phrase meant that he was doing something wrong. The way he saw it […]

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Enneagram 3: Achiever or Performer

Today we are looking at Enneagram 3:  the Achiever or Performer. We will do this by exploring their motivations, downsides, movements, and wings. The word Enneagram is derived from the Greek words ennea, meaning “nine” and gram meaning “what is written or drawn”. The enneagram symbol contains nine personality types, each located at different points. […]

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Enneagram – No. 2: The Helper

The Enneagram suggests that there are 9 basic human types.  The different types are characterized by the numbers 1-9 as points on a circle. It “teaches that early in life, we learned to feel safe and to cope with our family situations and personal circumstances. We do this by developing a strategy based on our […]

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Enneagram – No. 1: The Perfectionist

The Enneagram suggests that there are 9 basic human types. Enneagram – No. 1 is considered the perfectionist. The different types are characterized by the numbers 1-9 as points on a circle. As humans, we all participate in all the types, but you can start to figure out your type as the number “where the […]

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The Enneagram

Over the next two months, I am going to explore a personality typology called the Enneagram. My wife, Crystal, conducts workshops on the Enneagram that participants have found very helpful.   For more information please check out her website Journey to Inner Wisdom. She is the real expert. Becoming More Conscious In the office, I […]

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Truth #4 (cont.): Being Present for Each Other Heals the Past

From Making Marriage Simple Truth #4 (continued) Being Present for Each Other Heals the Past  by Helen In the first part of this chapter Helen shared how in the Imago system we seem to be attracted to a partner in an adult intimate relationship that replays the same challenges we had as kids. Our task […]

Truth #4: Being Present for Each Other Heals the Past

From the book Making Marriage Simple, here is Truth #4: Being Present for Each Other Heals the Past  by Helen   The Universal Mystery Helen writes: “Now, we get to the heart of what seems to be part of the universal mystery. There is an amazing thing that happens when we transform the energy of […]

Truth #3: Conflict is Growth Trying to Happen

From Making Marriage Simple by Harville Hendrix Harville begins this chapter with: “Hopefully by now you realize that the conflict you’re experiencing is not only normal, but inevitable and even valuable. Don’t try to avoid it. Don’t try to deny it. Don’t run away from it, or wish it away. Stay with it, and you’ll […]

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