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Intentional Dialogue

Imago Exercise #2 – Learn the rules of communication to ensure emotional safety.

Safety

Imago Exercise #1 – Create emotional safety in your relationship through effective communication.

Shifting Your Relationship Vision to Agenda

One of the first things I ask couples to do when they come to the office is to create a Relationship Vision. If their relationship worked out just the way they wanted, what would it look like? Even couples who are conflicted know what they want. I have each partner write statements beginning with we, […]

Grief is Like Carrying a Stone in Your Pocket

Four weeks ago our niece, age 37, died suddenly of a massive heart attack. Obviously it has been a difficult month. My daughter Clare read this piece at the service and I thought I would share it for any of you who might also be going through a period of grief. I hope it can […]

Automated Program

Remember a few months ago I said, in fact, I think I have probably said it more than once, “I’ve never set a goal I didn’t reach if I set it enough times”. Well, I think I finally made it with the automated program. Relationship Coach As most of you know, I have been a […]