The last piece of the combination lock is the Imago System. Harville and Helen made a huge intuitive leap in our understanding of relationships by making the connection between the unconscious image – the Imago (Imago is the Latin word for image) children form of their primary caretakers from childhood (the person who loves me, […]
Chapter 3 – Skills: The Safe Conversation Process
Coming up to Valentine’s Day – the tools are available in today’s world to have the relationship of your dreams. So far we have seen the importance of safety. Your old reptilian brain has a 500 million-year track record, you are not going to change it. If you don’t feel safe you will protect yourself. […]
Chapter 2: The Zone of Safety; Key to a Successful Relationship
“Safety is the second important piece of your playbook. Why Safety? Because safety is built into your DNA – your survival. … Our knowledge of exactly how the different parts of the brain interact and how they developed is constantly expanding; however, the consensus of opinion among most experts is that our brain stem is […]
Chapter 1: Exploring the Space-Between – A Faster Way Forward
The Space Between: A Quantum Perspective As a relationship coach, I start here because I truly believe that the fastest way forward for any couple is to pay close attention to the space between them: it is a real energy field. “In their book Doing Imago Relationship Therapy in the Space-Between, Harville, and Helen examine, […]
The Relationship Coach – Introduction
Last year, I wrote The Relationship Coach, Your Playbook for Unlocking the Combination to a Successful Relationship. taking insights from Harville Hendrix and his wife, Helen LaKelly Hunt’s 2019 edition of Getting the Love You Want, “In this book, I use the analogy of a combination lock to explore the four different aspects of a great relationship. Obviously, […]
Conclusion: How to Talk with Anyone about Anything
In the conclusion to their book How to Talk with Anyone about Anything the authors share their vision of what the future could look like: “We believe the axis of history turns on changing how we talk to each other. Given that belief, our goal over the next thirty years is to teach the Safe […]
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