Last week I came across and shared, a document entitled 12 Relationship Green Flags. I had heard of relationship red flags but I thought this was kind of a neat spin on the concept. My wife then encouraged me to enlarge on the idea and together we expanded the list to include relationship red, and […]
The Past Affects the Present
A key insight of Imago theory is that unconsciously we tend to be romantically attracted to someone who has some of both the positive, but also the negative traits of our early caretakers. That person can look very different on the outside, but don’t be surprised when similar negative feelings to ones you had as […]
Relational Competency- Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt
In October, Harville Hendrix and his wife Helen LaKelly Hunt, the creators of Imago Relationship Therapy, were on our live Facebook show – Soiree Lifestyle Series 2020. They covered two broad areas: the first I wrote about in last month’s newsletter “What advice would you give couples just starting out?” The second area they explored […]
Why do couples fight? Why does the dream become the nightmare?
If you have ever asked these questions you are not alone. These were the questions Harville Hendrix and his wife, Helen LaKelly Hunt, the creators of Imago Relationship Therapy, struggled with over 40 years ago. Their answer, I believe, has cracked the code on relationships. Much like having the right combination to a lock, knowing […]
The Wellness Journey – Re-energize – removing frustrations and exits
The Wellness Journey takes couples from feeling – not heard, frustrated and not respected (Pain Island) to where they do feel loved, cared for, important and joyful (Pleasure Island). If you are experiencing these challenges in your relationship or if you know of anyone who is please don’t hesitate to share this information. The tools […]
The Wellness Journey – Rediscover – the Future
If you were to rate your relationship on a scale of 1 – 10, with 10 being the best and 1 not so good, where would you be? And where do you want to spend the next 5 or 10 or 50 years? On Pleasure Island couples are at a 9 or 10 all the […]
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