On to Truth 6: Negativity is Invisible Abuse from Making Marriage Simple For the last four or five years I have tried to help couples understand what I now believe is the the fastest way forward for their relationship, which is to protect the Space Between. Your relationship consists of the two of you plus […]
Truth 5: It’s Not WHAT You Say; It’s HOW You Say It
We have all heard the statement: It’s not what you say but how you say it, that is important and for sure that is true. The tone of voice or the loudness we use with our partner can make a difference. In this chapter, however, Helen is challenging us to explore how we talk to […]
Truth #4 (cont.): Being Present for Each Other Heals the Past
From Making Marriage Simple Truth #4 (continued) Being Present for Each Other Heals the Past by Helen In the first part of this chapter Helen shared how in the Imago system we seem to be attracted to a partner in an adult intimate relationship that replays the same challenges we had as kids. Our task […]
Truth #4: Being Present for Each Other Heals the Past
From the book Making Marriage Simple, here is Truth #4: Being Present for Each Other Heals the Past by Helen The Universal Mystery Helen writes: “Now, we get to the heart of what seems to be part of the universal mystery. There is an amazing thing that happens when we transform the energy of […]
Truth #3: Conflict is Growth Trying to Happen
From Making Marriage Simple by Harville Hendrix Harville begins this chapter with: “Hopefully by now you realize that the conflict you’re experiencing is not only normal, but inevitable and even valuable. Don’t try to avoid it. Don’t try to deny it. Don’t run away from it, or wish it away. Stay with it, and you’ll […]
Truth #2: Incompatibility is Grounds for Marriage
From the Book: Making Marriage Simple is written by Harville Hendrix Truth #2 Incompatibility is Grounds for Marriage Usually we hear that the other way around – incompatibility is grounds for divorce. From his experience though, Harville tells us: “It’s as if there is a universal design and, mysteriously, our incompatibility seems to be a […]
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