Helen, who is writing this chapter, begins with: “The brain can be divided into two parts: the lower brain, which we call the Crocodile; and the higher brain, which we call the Owl.” (p.100) Years ago, in my book Dream Relationship, I began with a similar concept: “Safety: the key to a great relationship. The […]
Chapter 6 con’t: An Imago Match
Let’s continue our discussion with the Imago Match, from last’s week’s blog. Here is an interesting question for you. “What leads us to choose that one person (or maybe two or three or four) to spend our lives with out of the countless others we could have chosen?” (p.129) Not a bad question really! Why […]
The Space Between: Part 1
Here is Part 1 of a series I’m calling The Space Between. Last week we looked at creating a Relationship Vision as a good start to 2023. If your relationship worked out just the way you wanted it, what would it look like? And then committing to doing what was necessary to move toward that […]