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The Relationship Revolution: Truth 4 & 5

The last two truths in their book Making Marriage Simple are: #4 Marriage isn’t a disease to be treated. It’s the cure and #5 Relationship Education must be supported and made available to everyone. Truth #4 Marriage Isn’t a Disease to Be Treated – It’s the Cure Their point here is that in any relationship […]

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The Relationship Revolution

Join the Relationship Revolution! In the Afterword of their book Making Marriage Simple  10 Relationship Saving Truths, Harville and Helen throw in 5 more ‘truths’ as a bonus. Last week I looked at the first of these ‘truths’, Healthy Marriages are the Ultimate Upstream Prevention, an idea I have espoused for years. Today I want […]

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Afterword The Relationship Revolution

“We wrote this book (Making Marriage Simple   10 Relationship Saving Truths) to share with you the culmination of our work so far. Our goal was to give you the most simple and effective ways to make your marriage great. We’ve offered you ten powerful truths to change your understanding about what makes relationship work […]

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Your Marriage is the Best Life Insurance Plan

Harville begins this chapter on healthy marriage with:  “From the start, Helen and I believed that a healthy marriage has far-ranging benefits, not just for individuals, but for society. But we didn’t have the facts to prove it. So we began collecting statistics. And we’re constantly finding new studies that confirm what we’ve intuited for […]

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Your Marriage is a Laughing Matter

What typically brings couples into my office is when things are not going well in their marriage – when there is DANGER. And yes, they have to learn how to deal with things when they go south, but I want couples to live the rest of their lives where it is SAFE.  In Imago we […]

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Your Brain has a Mind of Its Own

Helen, who is writing this chapter, begins with: “The brain can be divided into two parts: the lower brain, which we call the Crocodile; and the higher brain, which we call the Owl.” (p.100)  Years ago, in my book Dream Relationship, I began with a similar concept: “Safety: the key to a great relationship.  The […]

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What Conscious Partners Know: 24 and 25

This week, we’re exploring What Conscious Partners Know: 24 and 25 They need to acknowledge each other’s “otherness”, accept each other’s differences, affirm each other’s reality, adore each other’s traits, and advocate for each other’s reality and potential. They must differentiate before they can connect, so they accept each other as an “other” and accept […]

What Conscious Partners Know – 22 and 23

Continuing on with What Conscious Partners Know – Chapters 22 and 23 Connecting is sustained by intentionality, so they speak with a positive tone and use only appreciative or neutral words in all transactions, which helps them feel connected most of the time. The sign of a thriving relationship is how quickly partners engage in […]

Appreciations: Harville and Helen

I have said this before but I think it is worth repeating:  I truly believe the fastest way forward for any couple is to protect the Space-Between them. It is a real energy field, and you can tell, can’t you, when there is tension in the Space-Between? It is either tension-free or it is not. […]

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