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Relationship Challenge: It’s Not Fair

 I encountered a specific relationship challenge recently, the concept of “it’s not fair!” Relationship Challenge  “What you are doing is not working.” I used that phrase the other day in the office and was challenged by my client. His understanding was the phrase meant that he was doing something wrong. The way he saw it […]

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Enneagram 3: Achiever or Performer

Today we are looking at Enneagram 3:  the Achiever or Performer. We will do this by exploring their motivations, downsides, movements, and wings. The word Enneagram is derived from the Greek words ennea, meaning “nine” and gram meaning “what is written or drawn”. The enneagram symbol contains nine personality types, each located at different points. […]

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Enneagram – No. 2: The Helper

The Enneagram suggests that there are 9 basic human types.  The different types are characterized by the numbers 1-9 as points on a circle. It “teaches that early in life, we learned to feel safe and to cope with our family situations and personal circumstances. We do this by developing a strategy based on our […]

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Enneagram – No. 1: The Perfectionist

The Enneagram suggests that there are 9 basic human types. Enneagram – No. 1 is considered the perfectionist. The different types are characterized by the numbers 1-9 as points on a circle. As humans, we all participate in all the types, but you can start to figure out your type as the number “where the […]

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The Enneagram

Over the next two months, I am going to explore a personality typology called the Enneagram. My wife, Crystal, conducts workshops on the Enneagram that participants have found very helpful.   For more information please check out her website Journey to Inner Wisdom. She is the real expert. Becoming More Conscious In the office, I […]

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The Space Between: Part 5

I have been talking about the importance of the Space Between. Typically we think of a relationship as you and you – two people. The challenge is to view your relationship as the two of you plus the Space Between you. It is a real energy field and you can tell, can’t you, when there […]

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Relationship Issues

What Conscious Partners Know – 14 & 15

What Conscious Partners Know – 14 and 15 (from Doing Imago Relationship Therapy in the Space-Between) They need to remove all forms of negativity that show up in the Space-Between; instead of picking a fight and using negativity to get what they want, they ask their partner for a Dialogue.  They need to do their […]

What Conscious Partners Know (con’t)

What Conscious Partners Know (con’t) Back from England and Ireland, where we celebrated our 50th anniversary. This stuff works! We certainly wouldn’t have made it to 50 without Imago. Before going away, I had started working my way through the 25 statements Harville and Helen have written in their book Doing Imago Relationship Therapy in […]

What Conscious Partners Know: My Marriage

My Marriage: What Conscious Partners Know  This will be my last blog until May. My wife and I are heading to Europe for a month to celebrate our 50th wedding anniversary. As I tell the couples that come to my office, Imago Relationship Therapy is not just theory for me, it is very personal. Our […]

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That's how he likes to think of himself - a coach. John Sullivan won't fix your relationship. He gives you the tools to help you build permanent and lasting connections and a deeper intimacy with those in your life.

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